ESCAPE PORN ADDICTION &
BECOME THE MAN GOD CREATED YOU TO BE
Imagine what you could accomplish if you were freed from soul-crushing porn addiction. I'm a recovery coach with 12+ years of sobriety. I found freedom, and I'll help you catch the vision and build the systems to find yours.
Confidential. No pressure. 30 minutes.
Common Obstacles to Porn Addiction Recovery
Minimizing the problem or the severity of the consequences
Substituting filters, technology, and constant accountability for true, lasting recovery
Underestimating the danger of lust-filled thoughts and looks
Imagining you simply don't love Jesus enough, pray enough, etc.
Entertaining a self-image dominated by shame
Relying on willpower to fight the temptations
These are some of the many strategies and mindsets that hamstring attempts to kick the porn habit. There is a better way.
Working with me, you will learn to properly diagnose the nature of your porn problem. Hint: you are not some weak-willed degenerate. And you'll develop systems to win lasting freedom. You'll learn how to redirect the energy lust brings and identify and address the brokenness that fuels your desire for porn.
You can become the unshackled, powerful man God created you to be. No longer sitting on the sidelines. Now a transforming force for good. Now fulfilling your calling in a broken world.
About Me
I'm Richard. I was once where you are: distressed and hopeless because of my inability to stop acting out with porn. I lived the roller coaster of "stopping for good this time" and acting out once again. For three decades. In that time, I expect I tried everything you've tried to stop.
I was so hopeless, I feared my story would end with me abandoned by my wife and children, alone in a nursing home, trying to hide my porn from the nurses. Utterly defeated.
But it didn't end that way. I've now been sober for over 12 years: A comfortable, serene, fulfilling sobriety. No white-knuckling it. Turns out I had been misdiagnosing the problem, and therefore using the wrong "medicine" to cure it.
And sobriety has had un-looked-for benefits. I had only hoped to be free from the terrible habit. What I got instead was a new life. Sobriety transformed my family life, my faith, my professional life, my physical health, and my vision for serving God in this fallen world. You can achieve amazing results when you're not constantly fighting or giving in to porn. Go figure.
And I want to share what I've found with you. You can be free from pornography. You can live a transformed life: the life God designed you to lead.
I'm a follower of Jesus, a grateful husband and father of 4, and a kettlebell and mobility practitioner.
And I'm a porn recovery coach. Sign up for an introductory call and discover what it means to walk the road of true recovery.
How Do I Get Started?
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Coaching Sessions
1-on-1 sessions are 1 hour in duration, usually virtual. Expect to spend at least 6 sessions working with me. In that time, we'll build the foundation for your recovery and begin getting traction. Where we go from there is up to you.
Recovery Can Be Challenging.
You don't have to go it alone.
You've fought unsuccessfully to kick this habit for years. Maybe you're wondering if the effort is even worth it anymore. You're endangering your relationships, your work, your faith, maybe even your sanity. But you've tried everything you can think of. Nothing sticks.
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Let me assure you: it is possible to be free from pornography and it is worth it. I'd like to show you how. After years of failure and frustration, I was able to create systems that freed me not only from porn, but from the fruitless attempts to gin up more and more willpower.
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I'll help you to diagnose your true problem, and create your own systems to reach the goal of a powerful porn-free life.
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Book a free call and discover what your new life will look like.
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You absolutely can achieve freedom and become a powerful presence in and for your world.
FAQ:
Straight Answers
Q: Is this therapy? No. Coaching is forward-looking and goal-directed. I don't diagnose or treat mental health conditions, and if your situation calls for a licensed counselor, I'll tell you directly and help you find one.
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Q: Is this confidential? Yes. What you share stays between us, within the limits the law requires of everyone.
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Q: Do I have to be a Christian? My coaching is built on a biblical framework and I won't water that down. If you're not a believer but you're open to that framework, I'd love to work with you. God has designed the world and our minds to work optimally within certain parameters. Just as Christian as well as non-Christian farmers can leverage the natural laws God has established to produce an abundant crop, so both Christian and non-Christian addicts alike can experience a life free from porn by leveraging the habits aligned with how we were created.
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Q: Do you work with other forms of sex addiction? Yes. As with substance addictions, porn addiction can be progressive, sometimes progressing to serial affairs, prostitutes, etc. The root of the addiction remains the same. I work with you on these aspects of your behavior as well.
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Q: I've relapsed more times than I can count. Is this even worth it? There are many reasons why recovery doesn't "take". I'll work with you to uncover what it has been in your strategies that has not worked. Together we will build a system that can work.
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Q: What does it cost? Coaching packages start at $500 for 6 sessions, or you can pay as you go for $100 per session. Expect to spend at least 6 sessions working with me. In that time, we'll build the foundation for your recovery and begin getting traction. Where we go from there is up to you.
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Q: What is the format of the meetings? Expect to meet virtually, though if you live in St. Louis, Missouri, we can discuss meeting in person.
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Q: I have questions you didn't answer. No problem. I'd love to explore your questions in an introductory call. Click the button below and set up a free discovery call.
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